Back-to-School Wellbeing: What Every Parent of a First-Year Student Should Know

August 26, 2025

When your child leaves home for college, it’s one of the biggest transitions you’ll both ever face. Suddenly, their schedule, living space, friends, and routines are brand new and your role as a parent shifts, too. You’re no longer managing the day-to-day details, but you’re still a vital source of support as they learn to navigate independence.


At the Lifelong Wellbeing Foundation, we look at wellbeing across 8 dimensions: emotional, physical, social, intellectual, spiritual, environmental, occupational, and financial. As your student starts college, each of these dimensions may be tested in new ways. The good news? You can play an active role in encouraging balance and resilience without stepping on their newfound independence.


Here’s how to support each dimension from your side of the journey:

Emotional Wellbeing

Support emotional wellbeing by normalizing the range of feelings that come with transition. Remind your student it’s okay to feel homesick, stressed, or uncertain, and reassure them that these feelings are part of adjusting. Share your own first big transition story. It can help them feel less alone.


Physical Wellbeing

Support physical wellbeing by encouraging healthy basics: good sleep, balanced meals, and regular movement. Instead of nagging, ask gentle check-in questions (“Are you finding a routine that works for you?”). Care packages with healthy snacks or cozy items for rest go a long way!


Social Wellbeing

Support social wellbeing by encouraging your student to connect, but avoid pressuring them to “make lots of friends right away.” Instead, remind them that it only takes one or two genuine connections to feel grounded. Celebrate the small social wins they share with you.


Intellectual Wellbeing

Support intellectual wellbeing by staying curious about their classes without demanding perfect grades. Ask what topics they’re finding most interesting, and encourage exploration. Your curiosity helps validate that learning is about growth, not just performance.


Spiritual Wellbeing

Support spiritual wellbeing by encouraging whatever practices keep your student grounded—whether that’s attending a church service, journaling, or taking quiet walks. Send them reminders of family values, traditions, or rituals that might anchor them during stressful times.


Environmental Wellbeing

Support environmental wellbeing by helping your student think creatively about their space. A few personal touches from home or suggestions for creating calming study areas can make their new environment feel more supportive. Care packages with small, practical items can also help them feel settled.

Occupational Wellbeing

Support occupational wellbeing by framing “being a student” as meaningful work. Encourage exploration of internships, jobs, or volunteer opportunities without pressure to “figure it all out.” Celebrate their effort and growth, not just achievements.


Financial Wellbeing

Support financial wellbeing by having open, judgment-free conversations about budgeting. Share tools or apps, encourage use of student discounts, and discuss priorities. Be clear about what financial support you’re able to provide so they can plan accordingly.


The start of college isn’t just a transition for your student—it’s a transition for you, too. By supporting these 8 dimensions of wellbeing with encouragement, curiosity, and trust, you’ll help your child build a foundation for not only adjusting to college but also thriving in this new chapter of life.

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