When Overwhelm Hits, Lean Into Gratitude: A Thanksgiving Reflection
With Thanksgiving on the horizon, we’re reminded of gratitude: the simple act of noticing what’s good. But between the deadlines, personal pressures, and major changes that come along with college life, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and forget how powerful gratitude can be.
Recently, our co-founder Rebecca Sanchez attended the international Enactus competition, and she noticed something unexpected…
At the international Enactus competition, she observed that the U.S. student team, when asked what would be most helpful to them at future competitions, didn’t ask for “more funding” or “bigger impact.” They asked for a quiet space to meet before and between competition. They wanted this space so that they could take time together to pause, to go around the circle and share what they were grateful for about each other. One of the students said that this would be the most powerful way to quiet the overwhelm.
Even in the pressure cooker of competition, these students recognized how gratitude and relational connection could make a lasting impact on how they performed.
Why Gratitude Matters Most
- Gratitude rewires your focus. When you intentionally notice what’s good (even small things like “the coffee was hot” or “my roommate asked how I’m doing”) you shift your brain away from chronic stress.
- Gratitude strengthens connection. A round-robin of telling peers “I’m grateful for you because…” cultivates social wellbeing, builds trust, and deepens community.
- Gratitude offers a reset. When overwhelm hits (midterms, family stress, job uncertainty) a simple gratitude ritual becomes a lifeline.
A Simple Thanksgiving Gratitude Practice
- Gather three friends (in-person or virtual).
- Pass around a “talking object” (a mug, a pen, a stone).
- One by one, each person holds the object, names one thing they’re grateful for about the person to their right, then passes it on.
- End by each person naming one thing they’re grateful for in themselves. Self-gratitude matters.
Gratitude Beyond Thanksgiving
Gratitude isn’t just for a single holiday. It’s a habit. Consider:
- Keep a “gratitude jar” on your desk. At the end of each day, write one thing you’re grateful for, drop it in. At semester’s end, read them.
- When faced with a setback (a grade you didn’t want, a conflict, illness), ask yourself: “What’s one thing, however small, I can be grateful for in this moment?”
- Pair gratitude with action: thanking someone publicly (email, text, note) amplifies the benefit.
This Thanksgiving, remember: gratitude is about expanding your view. In the midst of change, stress, deadlines and growth, gratitude becomes an anchor. As you build your college years, let gratitude be more than a moment. Let it be a practice that shapes your rhythm, your relationships, and your resilience.









