Financial Wellbeing 101: Getting Real About Money Stress
Money stress is one of the most common (and least talked about!) sources of anxiety for college students. It shows up quietly: a tight feeling when you check your bank account, avoiding emails about tuition or fees, stress when friends suggest plans you can’t afford, or guilt over spending even small amounts.
If this sounds familiar, you are not alone!
This winter, as we continue moving through the emotional arc of fear → reflection → clarity, financial wellbeing invites an honest question: What am I afraid of when it comes to money?
Because beneath budgeting apps and bank balances, money is deeply emotional.

Why Money Stress Feels So Heavy in College
For many students, college is the first time managing money independently. Tuition, housing, books, food, transportation, and social life all compete for limited resources often while juggling part-time work, financial aid, or loans.
On top of that, money is rarely taught clearly or openly. Many students carry unspoken fears such as:
- “What if I run out of money?”
- “What if I don’t understand how this works?”
- “What if I make a mistake that follows me for years?”
- “What if asking for help means I should already know this?”
Fear around money often leads to avoidance. Avoidance increases stress. And stress makes everything feel harder.
Financial wellbeing means having clarity, confidence, and a sense of agency, even when money feels tight.
Financial Wellbeing Is More Than Budgeting
When people hear “financial wellbeing,” they often think of spreadsheets, expense tracking, or cutting back. Those tools matter but they are only part of the picture.
Financial wellbeing also includes:
- Your beliefs about money
- Your emotional reactions to spending and saving
- Your comfort asking questions
- Your confidence making decisions
- Your ability to plan without panic
Money decisions are rarely just logical. They are shaped by stress, fear, upbringing, social comparison, and uncertainty. Recognizing this is important.
Clarity reduces anxiety and understanding builds confidence!
Reframing Budgeting as Self-Support
A simple mindset shift can be helpful:
A budget is not a restriction. It is a plan that supports your priorities.
Even a basic budget helps you:
- Understand what money is coming in
- See where money is going
- Reduce surprises
- Make decisions with less stress
- Replace fear with facts
You do not need a perfect system. You need a realistic system that works for YOU.
Start small by sorting your expenses into three categories to get a handle on how much is going into each:
- Essentials (housing, food, transportation)
- Flexible spending (social life, personal items)
- Future needs (savings, emergencies, loan payments)
Just simple awareness can often lower stress levels about money.

You Probably Have More Financial Support on Campus Than You Realize
Many students assume they have to figure out money on their own, but most colleges offer financial wellbeing resources, often at no cost. These supports are designed for students and meant to be used.
Here are common types of financial resources you may find on your campus:
1. Financial Aid Office
Beyond loans and grants, financial aid staff can:
- Explain your aid package
- Help you understand loan terms
- Discuss repayment options
- Clarify confusing bills or fees
They are there to answer your financial aid questions.
2. Student Financial Wellness or Financial Literacy Programs
Many campuses offer:
- Budgeting workshops
- One-on-one financial coaching
- Money management courses or seminars
- Online tools and calculators
These programs focus on education and empowerment.
3. Counseling or Wellbeing Centers
Money stress impacts mental health. Counseling centers often:
- Help students manage financial anxiety
- Address avoidance or shame around money
- Support stress reduction and coping strategies
Financial wellbeing is often tied to emotional wellbeing.
4. Academic Advisors
Advisors can help you:
- Plan course loads strategically
- Balance work hours with academics
- Avoid unnecessary financial strain from overloading or burnout
Sometimes financial stress is tied to scheduling and not just money.
5. Campus Employment or Career Services
These offices can support:
- Finding flexible student jobs
- Understanding paychecks and taxes
- Planning financially for internships or post-graduation work
Income stability is a key part of financial wellbeing.
6. Emergency Aid or Student Support Funds
Many colleges have:
- Emergency grants
- Short-term financial assistance
- Food pantries or basic needs programs
Using these resources is never a failure. If you are in need, they are set up and funded for YOU.
Small Habits That Build Financial Confidence
You do not need to “fix” everything at once. Start with a few wellbeing-centered habits:
1. Weekly Money Check-In
Ten minutes. Once a week. Look at balances and upcoming expenses without judgment.
2. Name the Fear
Ask: What am I actually afraid of right now? Uncertainty? Shame? Running out? Asking for help?
3. Learn One Thing at a Time
One question answered reduces anxiety more than avoiding everything.
4. Talk About Money
Silence increases stress. Honest conversation brings relief.
5. Ask for Help Early
Using resources before things feel urgent protects your wellbeing.
Getting Real About Your Money
Avoiding money does not make stress disappear but it WILL drain your energy. Courage is choosing to look, learn, and take one step forward.
When you understand your relationship with money, you gain more than financial skills. You gain confidence that supports every area of your life.
So ask yourself:
“What would feel more supportive right now, continuing to avoid my money stress or using the resources already available to me?”









